I realized I haven’t touched my blog for a really long time. I guess this is because of the use of social networking sites, such as twitter and facebook, which make updating of my status easier and faster. So you know in Junior college, time is a luxury. And therefore, time cannot be used on the computer to type long entries. However, I realized that though these networking sites saves time but it do not allow me to write a lot down as there are limited number of words. This means I will need to have a lot of status update that will result in spamming other people’s wall, and I want to spare others from their wall being spammed with my rants. Therefore, I have come back to good old blogs to fulfil such a task. Okay, sorry about the long and lengthy intro. Let me start.
In JC, I realized and experience more about life. I find that it is very stressful for one as the environment is in such a way where people always want to compete with others. As they find it extremely thrilling and joyous to obtain a higher mark then others and not taking time to help others. This is selfishness in the act. I am not stating that any dude who scores really high marks are like that but I, myself, sometimes find myself in that situation. I based others’ marks to determine my success. I find it extremely tiring and disappointing.
My advice: do NOT ever do that.
It sucks the morality and humanity out of you, leaving you empty and never satisfied. I learnt that sometimes it is way, way much better to have your peers scoring the same really awesome grades as you, then to obtain a few more marks then others and gloat over it. The best way to celebrate success is when others obtain success. In this way, there is no need to hide one’s excitement and joy as one do not want to hurt those already in pain as they obtain a mark that is not desired.
In conclusion, success cannot be measured by comparing and putting others down. AND success taste the BEST when everyone celebrates with you.
That’s all from me now.
Till I have some free time, see you again.
Mic3helle
♥MICH-SHELL
